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When it comes to open-minded travel, lifestyle exploration, and unforgettable experiences as a couple, some states stand out. Whether it’s clubs and hotel takeovers, destination resorts, or a culture that embraces curiosity and connection, these locations consistently rise to the top. If you’re wondering where the most adventurous couples are, or where the best experiences begin, here are our picks for the Top 5 Kinkiest States in the U.S. and why each one earned its place. 1

Living at a lifestyle resort for several weeks is less about constant excitement and more about finding a rhythm that works for you. When you first arrive, everything is exciting and FOMO is a real thing.  Over time, however, patterns begin to emerge. Once you recognize those patterns, the experience becomes much easier to navigate and significantly more enjoyable. One of the biggest realizations early on is that each day of the week has its own personality. Resorts tend to f

Before making the trip, you need to put real thought into what you are bringing with you. Packing for a long stay at a lifestyle resort is very different from packing for a weekend trip, and what you bring, along with what you leave behind, will directly impact your comfort and daily routine once you arrive. Weather in February can be unpredictable, which is something we had to plan for more than expected. While you will get warm afternoons and plenty of sunshine, evenings ca

This is Part 1 of a 5-part series where we break down what it was really like living at Secrets Hideaway for six weeks. Over the next week and a half, we’ll share the reality, the surprises, and the things most people never think about before stepping into this experience. One of the perks of working for yourself is the freedom to choose where you work. This winter, instead of battling Ohio’s brutal cold, we decided to relocate for six weeks and experience what it would be li

“The Lifestyle”, that’s a term most people who are reading this understand very well, but it is also rather non-descriptive to the uninitiated.  While most people reading this are familiar with the term, it can still be misleading.  For instance, “I live in a Lifestyle Community”.  Does that mean a community of swingers or a vanilla apartment community brand in Columbus, Raleigh-Durham or Tampa?  Complementing your neighbor’s breasts at a Lifestyle Community in New Albany, OH

A day at the beach, your way. If you’re considering attending your first lifestyle event, resort, or cruise, you’re not alone, and it’s not unusual to have questions or concerns. Many travelers who visit EcstasyGetaways.com are curious, open-minded, and excited… but held back by assumptions that don’t reflect how the lifestyle actually works in practice. This guide is designed to provide you with an honest, judgment-free overview of what you can expect, so you can decide whe